Girl talk boy talk

When I was in high school there were 2 beautiful girls that "ran" together. If you saw one, you saw the other, always. They were the most sophisticated, polished looking, well dressed females in our school. They were known as the "Racehorses." In those days, the connotation was "beautiful and fast." I don't mean "fast" as in "quick footed" I mean "fast" as in, their "mythological" reputation preceded them. The funny thing, when looking back, I knew a ton of guys who said they were "fast" but none could claim to have ever "ridden" any of these "mares." They said they got their information from a reliable source. Yeah right!

I am not trying to be crude when I say "ridden" or "mares" etc... I have the utmost respect for women and I have never, nor would I ever tell my closest friend about any "conquest" I have had in my life period. My reasoning was, " I am not going to tell you about my pot of gold for a couple of reasons." First, I didn't want you to know because you would try and hit on her, or guys blab like a talk radio station and it would get back to the "gold" and then I would surely be "screwed" by my own ego.

All that being said, I have been around guys in high school and in college who couldn't help telling everyone they knew about their supposed "conquests." What I learned early on is, the ones who talked the most were doing the least, if any at all. They were usually the most insecure of all the guys I knew. Most of these wannabe's had swiped their dad's Penthouse Forum mag or bought one for themselves and read fictitious stories of incredible sex that a "average" guy had with a "10" in a laundromat in the middle of the night on the seedy side of town.

It may be the type of people I have as friends today but I have never been in the company of any friend of mine on a golf course or card game that has decided to share one of his exploits he had the weekend before. This is not to say that these "broadcasters" do not exists, they do, in great numbers. Keep in mind ladies, all men (and I mean all) have fragile egos that have to be carefully handled and massaged by the female species if you want him to behave himself.

These same fragile man-boys can turn into the biggest "dickheads" when they are around other guys. I don't know why other than their mother must have slapped them around or something.Of course, what I have just written, women may or may not agree with, but hopefully they would understand that not all men "share" what they know and what they have "conquered."

I heard a woman say her idea of a successful relationship hinged on her ability to make her man feel like he is charge, when in reality, she is, and he doesn't know the difference. There may be some honest truth in those words.

I have heard "some" women love to share with their best friend(s) intimate experiences in "detail" at the hands of a great lover. This may be true, only because they don't come across many "great" lovers in their lifetime (which to them will always be subjective) and to finally be in the arms of one should be shared with other female friends to encourage them that there are some decent men still roaming around out there in the barren land of love and intimacy. Seems plausible.

If this is true, my question is,"does a woman, who have intimate second hand knowledge of a "great" and "resourceful" lover, look at that guy differently when he is in her presence? What would the female be thinking?

I leave you with this little marital joke I am sure you have heard, indulge me.

A newly married couple were making love on their "first" night together. After they were finished and just laying there, the wife reached over and slapped her husband up side the head and said "you aren't much of a lover are you?" After regrouping he thought for a minute then slapped her upside the head. She said "what was that for?" He looked at her incredulously and said "that was for knowing the difference."